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Below is a list of questions that we are commonly asked by parents who want to explore or learn about child development. If you have additional questions you would like to see on this page, please contact us here.

If you are just curious and have concerns about your child, then all you have to do is look around at this web site, the many others we link to, our library, and the many other resources you will run into along the way.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • I have concerns about how my child is developing. What do I do?
  • I have gone to the pediatrician and he/she has told me that my child is just slow or a bit behind, and not to worry. Should I worry?
  • What do I do to get a second opinion? My child has been evaluated by a professional but I want to ask more questions. 
  • My child needs an evaluation. Where and how do I start the process?
  • Who do I contact to get an evaluation?
  • What can I expect as to how the evaluation process will go?
  • What are my rights as a parent who has a child with a disability or exceptionality?
  • What are my rights as a parent who has concerns about my child and wants a professional opinion or evaluation?
  • Are there things I can do at home to help my child develop normally or help my child who has a disorder or exceptionality?

There are also a number of places offering various forms of education online or in person. See: Alliance for Child & Family Health & DevelopmentMerced College Community Services , Merced County Adult Education, or University of California Merced

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What is normal? Is my child growing up like other children?

This is one of the most commonly asked questions of parents and of other adults who may interact, work or play with children. It is also one of the most difficult questions to answer clearly. Here are some things to keep in mind.

Things to Remember

  • Most children do grow-up without significant problems. Estimates are hard to come by, but a minority (up to 20%; CDC ) of children are diagnosed each year with mental health (psychiatric) issues or disabilities requiring special education services in the schools (approximately 13%; ies). These statistics vary by family income level, ethnicity and geographic location. 
  • There is great diversity in how children develop. Some are ahead of their peers in some areas, while behind their peers in other areas.
  • The typical steps in how most children develop age-to-age are sometimes called “milestones”. For example, most (but not all) children crawl before they walk. And the common age at which walking or a child’s first steps occurs is around 9-12 months of age. However, this covers only 50% of babies—the other 50% start to walk later. See the “milestones” section below.
  • Some children can display what are called “developmental delays” that are not necessarily disorders or do not necessarily lead to disorders. Statistics suggest that 8% or more young children will exhibit such delays. See the “developmental delays” section below.
  • Remember: It is common for parents to worry about their child’s development. It is, in fact, a good thing to observe and think about these issues. Only by doing so, can potentially important issues in a child’s development be brought to the attention of a professional who can properly assess the child’s development.

Milestones In Development

The links below are various sources of information about typical patterns of child growth and development. Again, they represent only the most common patterns and average ages we see these milestones, and therefore they do not portray the equally normal and common diversity we see in children as they age. Note also that some milestones come at different times for boys or girls. See “things to remember” above.

If after exploring these milestones you have concerns, see the section below called “developmental delay” or other sections of our site dealing with specific disorders or where to get help.

Click here to visit out Development Milestones Chart. See information at the Baby Center, including milestones, growth charts, etc.

Developmental Delays

A Developmental Delay is a “significant” lag in a child’s physical, cognitive, behavioral, emotional, or social development, when compared to norms or typical milestones. The term “significant” is hard to define simply. It can vary according to:

  • The particular milestone being measured. For example, there is more variation in the age at which a typical child walks (9-17 months) versus displays a social interactive smile (1-3 months). Thus, saying what is a real delay for milestones with broader ranges of variation can be more difficult than for milestones with narrower age ranges.
  • State laws that determine if a developmentally delayed child is eligible for services. Children with delays can qualify for services but what is needed for qualification can vary location-to-location.
  • The experience and approach of the professional assessing the child. Some professionals will take a very statistical approach to defining a significant delay. For example, they may consider a child significantly delayed when he/she has failed to accomplish a milestone when some 70% of their peers have. Another professional, based on his/her experience, may not be so worried.

The important thing to remember is to watch your child develop. Explore the available information, talk to other parents, see what other children do, but bear in mind that children differ—a lot! And if you have a concern about your child’s development, seek the advice of a professional. See section below called “get help”.

  • Having a Developmental Delay is not the Same as Having a Disorder
  • The key thing about delays is that they are usually less severe than a disorder and that they will either go away on their own or with the help of a treatment.
  • It is difficult to know ahead of time if a child will catch up on their own. Often they do. So in some cases a professional is completely correct to say “wait a while and don’t worry too much…”. However, if you feel that your concerns have been dismissed too quickly, go back and ask for a formal developmental assessment. At the very least this should include some sort of standard assessment instrument, family history and parental report.
  • Delays do respond to treatments and the earlier treatments are initiated the better. Treatments may involve therapies performed by professionals outside the home. In some cases, treatments occur in the home as well. Treatments may be complex, such as physical therapies, or simple, such as advising parents to engage with the child differently or in a more stimulating way.

Remember that what appears to be a delay can be the precursor or early sign of a disorder but often it is not. Being a watchful parent and an advocate for proper assessments and services can be critical to your child’s health. If needed, the earlier treatments are started the better the outcome. Be patient, avoid anxieties, gain knowledge. See the “get help” section below.

Things That Can Cause Delays

  • The culture, ethnicity and language background of the child. For instance, infants raised in multilingual homes may be behind their monolingual peers in some early aspects of language development. However, research suggests that these delays pretty much disappear by age 4 or so. See child development chart.
  • The extent to which a child is raised in an impoverished environment. Studies show that delays are more common in economically depressed families and in families where in-the-home stimulation is minimal regardless of the economic standing of the household.
  • Natural variation in genetics. Some children simply get the genetics predisposing them to be delayed in development although they can catch-up. The chance mixture of parental genes is a contributor in the differences we see across children making some children fast or slow developers. But just because there may be a genetic basis to the delays does not mean that the delays cannot be helped by proper treatments.
  • Genetic risk factors. This type of genetics can be a bit different than natural variation mentioned above. It refers to specific genes that can put a child at risk for delays and eventual disorders. For example, there are genes that put children at risk for reading-related learning disabilities in the later years that may show their effects as delays in language when the child is quite young.
  • Environmental factors. In addition to the environmental factors like economics, there are other more specific “environmental risk factors”, that like their genetic risk factor counterparts, can cause delays and perhaps yield more serious disorders later. These include things like physical and emotional abuse, toxins like lead, drugs the mother may have taken during pregnancy, and poor nutrition.

Remember that there are many causes of delays and that genetics and environment work together to produce delays as well as determining if and how a child will catch-up. For more information on this topic see child development chart.

Causes of a Child's Normal Development

Witnessing your child grow and change can be an amazing experience. Many people ask questions like: Why does a child grow as he or she does? What is the basis of milestones such that they tend to have average ages across children and often go in a certain sequence? What underlies these changes?

  • The answers are complicated. But here are a few points about them:
  • Child development is a reflection of muscle, bone, brain and physiology as it changes and matures.
  • Many of these changes are governed by genetics which in turn interact with the environment.
  • Therefore, differences we see in how children develop, some behind and some ahead of their peers, are because children experience different things in their environment and have different genes.
  • Similarly, delays or disorders in some children are because they have the genes and/or environments that trigger these things.
  • All humans are designed to walk, talk, and play in certain ways. They are programmed to acquire these abilities given normal environments. This is why all typically developing humans look quite similar.
  • The way the nervous and other body systems develop requires that some things come before others. The brain must be able to store language information before it is able to use that information in speech. The muscular and skeletal systems must exercise and practice skills like holding the head up before the body can jump up and run. Thus, we necessarily see the common sequences in development that we call milestones.

There is a lot of interesting information on these mechanisms of development. The interested reader should see the child development chart.

Get Help

  • If you feel that your child may have a delay that concerns you may want to have your child formally assessed. After the assessment you can speak with the professional about next steps.
  • These types of assessments are sometimes called “developmental screenings” or “developmental evaluations”.
  • These two sites offer more information about these evaluations: Developmental Screening & Developmental Evaluations
  • The resources in or near Merced County for screenings can be found here.
  • You are also encouraged to speak with your child care provider, such as teachers at his or her preschools or their pediatrician. You might also speak with your own health care professional/physician for advice about how to proceed.
  • Remember: Read the information in this section on delays and normal development, be a calm advocate for your needs, and know that early interventions, if needed, are usually best.

General Discussion

If your discussion item concerns different specific conditions, you may want to place those remarks under our General Discussion page.

If your comment is better directed to us in the form of a nonpublic email, please see our “Contact Us” page.

Note: All H4MC blogs are public forums for a diverse readership. We hope that these blogs will open-up community discussion and build community support. The blogs are not monitored for content, although staff of the H4MC may occasionally participate. H4MC retains the right to remove  comments  deemed inappropriate. H4MC does not necessarily support the views expressed. Please respect the authors and readers and avoid posting comments directed at persons or that are culturally insensitive.

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Below is a list of questions that we are commonly asked by parents who want to explore or learn about child development. If you have additional questions you would like to see on this page, please contact us here.

If you are just curious and have concerns about your child, then all you have to do is look around at this website, the many others we link to, our library, and the many other resources you will run into along the way.

  • I have concerns about how my child is developing. What do I do? Start here.
  • I have gone to the pediatrician and he/she has told me that my child is just slow or a bit behind, and not to worry. Should I worry? Start here.
  • What do I do to get a second opinion? My child has been evaluated by a professional but I want to ask more questions. Start here
  • My child needs and evaluation. Where and how do I start the process? Start here.
  • Who do I contact to get an evaluation? Start here.
  • What can I expect as to how the evaluation process will go? Start here.
  • What are my rights as a parent who has a child with a disability or exceptionality? Visit here.
  • What are my rights as a parent who has concerns about my child and wants a professional opinion or evaluation? Visit here.
  • Are there things I can do at home to help my child develop normally or help my child who has a disorder or exceptionality? Start here.

There are also a number of places offering various forms of education online or in person. See: Alliance for Child & Family Health & DevelopmentMerced College Community Services , Merced County Adult Education, or University of California Merced


General Discussion

If your discussion item concerns different specific conditions, you may want to place those remarks under our General Discussion page.

If your comment is better directed to us in the form of a nonpublic email, please see our “Contact Us” page.

Note: All H4MC blogs are public forums for a diverse readership. We hope that these blogs will open-up community discussion and build community support. The blogs are not monitored for content, although staff of the H4MC may occasionally participate. H4MC retains the right to remove  comments  deemed inappropriate. H4MC does not necessarily support the views expressed. Please respect the authors and readers and avoid posting comments directed at persons or that are culturally insensitive.

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MY CHILD HAS PROBLEMS WITH PAYING ATTENTION…

Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is one of the most common childhood disorders and can continue through adolescence and adulthood. Symptoms include difficulty staying focused and paying attention, difficulty controlling behavior, and hyperactivity (over-activity).

Signs & Symptoms

It is normal for children to have trouble focusing and behaving at one time or another. However, children with ADHD do not just grow out of these behaviors. The symptoms continue and can cause difficulty at school, at home, or with friends.

A child with ADHD might:

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  • daydream a lot
  • forget or lose things a lot
  • squirm or fidget
  • talk too much
  • make careless mistakes or take unnecessary risks
  • have a hard time resisting temptation
  • have trouble taking turns
  • have difficulty getting along with others

Types of ADHD

There are three different types of ADHD, depending on which types of symptoms are strongest in the individual:

  • Predominantly Inattentive Presentation: It is hard for the individual to organize or finish a task, to pay attention to details, or to follow instructions or conversations. The person is easily distracted or forgets details of daily routines.
  • Predominantly Hyperactive-Impulsive Presentation: The person fidgets and talks a lot. It is hard to sit still for long (e.g., for a meal or while doing homework). Smaller children may run, jump or climb constantly. The individual feels restless and has trouble with impulsivity. Someone who is impulsive may interrupt others a lot, grab things from people, or speak at inappropriate times. It is hard for the person to wait their turn or listen to directions. A person with impulsiveness may have more accidents and injuries than others.
  • Combined Presentation: Symptoms of the above two types are equally present in the person.

Because symptoms can change over time, the presentation may change over time as well.

Causes of ADHD

Scientists are studying cause(s) and risk factors in an effort to find better ways to manage and reduce the chances of a person having ADHD. The cause(s) and risk factors for ADHD are unknown, but current research shows that genetics plays an important role. Recent studies of twins link genes with ADHD.1

In addition to genetics, scientists are studying other possible causes and risk factors including:

  • Brain injury
  • Environmental exposures (e.g., lead)
  • Alcohol and tobacco use during pregnancy
  • Premature delivery
  • Low birth weight

Research does not support the popularly held views that ADHD is caused by eating too much sugar, watching too much television, parenting, or social and environmental factors such as poverty or family chaos. Of course, many things, including these, might make symptoms worse, especially in certain people. But the evidence is not strong enough to conclude that they are the main causes of ADHD.

For more information about cause(s) and risk factors, visit the National Resource Center on ADHD or the National Institute of Mental Health.

Diagnosis

Deciding if a child has ADHD is a several step process. There is no single test to diagnose ADHD, and many other problems, like anxiety, depression, and certain types of learning disabilities, can have similar symptoms. One step of the process involves having a medical exam, including hearing and vision tests, to rule out other problems with symptoms like ADHD. Another part of the process may include a checklist for rating ADHD symptoms and taking a history of the child from parents, teachers, and sometimes, the child.

Learn more about the criteria for diagnosing ADHD »

Treatments

In most cases, ADHD is best treated with a combination of behavior therapy and medication. For preschool-aged children (4-5 years of age) with ADHD, behavior therapy is recommended as the first line of treatment. No single treatment is the answer for every child and good treatment plans will include close monitoring, follow-ups and any changes needed along the way.

Following are treatment options for ADHD:

  • Medications
  • Behavioral intervention strategies
  • Parent training
  • School accommodations and interventions

To go to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) policy statement on the treatment of school-aged children with ADHD, visit the Recommendations page.

Behavioral Therapy

Research shows that behavioral therapy is an important part of treatment for children with ADHD. ADHD affects not only a child’s ability to pay attention or sit still at school, it also affects relationships with family and how well they do in their classes. Behavioral therapy is a treatment option that can help reduce these problems for children and should be started as soon as a diagnosis is made. Read about effective therapies here »

Following are examples that might help with your child’s behavioral therapy:

  • Create a routine. Try to follow the same schedule every day, from wake-up time to bedtime.
  • Get organized. Put schoolbags, clothing, and toys in the same place every day so your child will be less likely to lose them.
  • Avoid distractions. Turn off the TV, radio, and computer, especially when your child is doing homework.
  • Limit choices. Offer a choice between two things (this outfit, meal, toy, etc., or that one) so that your child isn’t overwhelmed and overstimulated.
  • Change your interactions with your child. Instead of long-winded explanations and cajoling, use clear, brief directions to remind your child of responsibilities.
  • Use goals and rewards. Use a chart to list goals and track positive behaviors, then reward your child’s efforts. Be sure the goals are realistic—baby steps are important!
  • Discipline effectively. Instead of yelling or spanking, use timeouts or removal of privileges as consequences for inappropriate behavior.
  • Help your child discover a talent. All kids need to experience success to feel good about themselves. Finding out what your child does well — whether it’s sports, art, or music — can boost social skills and self-esteem.

Behavior Treatment for Preschoolers

The 2011 clinical practice guidelines from the American Academy of Pediatrics recommend that doctors prescribe behavior interventions that are evidence based as the first line of treatment for preschool-aged children (4–5 years of age) with ADHD. Parents or teachers can provide this treatment.

The Agency for Health Care Research and Quality (AHRQ) conducted a review in 2010 of all existing studies on treatment options for preschoolers. The review found enough evidence to recommend parent behavioral interventions as a good treatment option for preschoolers with disruptive behavior in general and as helpful for those with ADHD symptoms.

The AHRQ review found that effective parenting programs help parents develop a positive relationship with their child, teach them about how children develop, and help them manage negative behavior with positive discipline. The review also found four programs for parents of preschoolers that include these key components:

Medications

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Medication can help a child with ADHD in their everyday life and may be a valuable part of a child’s treatment. Medication is an option that may help control some of the behavior problems that have led to trouble in the past with family, friends and at school.

Several different types of medications may be used to treat ADHD:

  • Stimulants are the best-known and most widely used treatments. Between 70-80 percent of children with ADHD respond positively to these medications.
  • Nonstimulants were approved for treating ADHD in 2003. This medication seems to have fewer side effects than stimulants and can last up to 24 hours.

Medications can affect children differently, where one child may respond well to one medication, but not another. When determining the best treatment, the doctor might try different medications and doses, so it is important to work with your child’s doctor to find the medication that works best for your child.

Get Help!


Get Help!

If you or your doctor has concerns about ADHD, you can take your child to a specialist such as a child psychologist or developmental pediatrician, or you can contact your local early intervention agency (for children under 3) or public school (for children 3 and older). You can fill out a symptoms checklist and take it to the child’s doctor.

Sharing Concerns

For tips on sharing concerns about a child’s development, click on one of the following:

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) sponsors the National Resource Center, a program of CHADD – Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. Their website has links to information for people with ADHD and their families. The National Resource Center operates a call center with trained staff to answer questions about ADHD. The number is 1-800-233-4050 FREE.

For more information on services for children with special needs, visit the Center for Parent Information and Resources.  To find the Parent Center near you, you can visit this website.

In order to make sure your child reaches his or her full potential, it is very important to get help for ADHD as early as possible.

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